Getting Real

Picture of Charlie BadenhopBackground Statement

About thirty seven years ago I was both unlucky and lucky enough, to be incarcerated for five months in a Greek prison during a military dictatorship. Myself and many other foreigners were swept up by the military government in an attempt to rid the country of "undesireables".

I say "unlucky" because even though I was never charged with a crime, I was forced to live in harsh and dangerous prison conditions. I say "lucky" because I met some of the finest people in the world while in jail, and learned much that has sustained me in the rest of my life.

I've decided to finally share some of my Greek stories with you, in the hope that you might benefit from what I learned "the hard way."

I would love some feedback to get a sense of how these stories reach you and touch you. Please drop me a line at charlie at seishindo.org.

Regards,
Charlie

PS.Today's story is offered as a gift to S. Roger and C. Scott.

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picture of coehloA friend of mine, Julia, sent me the text below. When I tried to get in touch with her to ask if she herself had written it, she had already left on a trip and I don't know exactly when she will be coming back.

I checked on the Internet and guess what I discovered? That there are many discussion groups on this subject! In other words, nowadays women are looking for reasons to fall in love with the opposite sex. As a man who agrees with some of these reasons, I made a list based on what they say:

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Picture of CharlieDuring my many years in Japan I've taken the opportunity to dabble in various Japanese arts. I always come away feeling inspired by the sensitivity and attention to detail that is expressed.

One of my explorations led me to take some lessons in "Ikebana", the Japanese art of flower arranging. During my brief training my teacher told me the following: "In contrast to the massing of blooms typical of flower arrangements in the West, Ikebana is usually characterized by a line of twigs and/or leaves, connected by a sparse arrangement of flowers. The idea being to give the viewer the sense they have come across a scene in nature."

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Picture of Paulo CoehloStanding above the little town of Tarifa is an old fort built by the Moors. I remember sitting here with my wife, Christina, in 1982, and for the first time looking at a continent from across a narrow stretch of water: Africa. At that time I could not dream that such a lazy moment in the late afternoon would inspire a scene in my best-known book, "The Alchemist”. Nor could I have dreamed that the story that follows, heard in the car, would serve as an excellent example for all of us who are searching for some balance between discipline and compassion.

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Picture of CharlieAre you living your life appreciating what you DO have, or are you lamenting what still seems to be missing?

Three years ago the eight year old daughter of a friend died in a freak accident at school. My friend was devastated and I could not think of any wise words that might console him.

As the weeks rolled by my friend slipped into an ever deeper sense of despair, and nothing anyone said seemed to lift his spirit.

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Picture of AndrewWell, meditation is the- is when we- is the-- Well, when we actually experience meditation, when we're not trying to do it, it's the awakening to consciousness itself so specific-

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Picture of PaoloI had proposed to publish here, once a year, texts by Carlos Castañeda, an anthropologist who influenced my generation with his tales of meetings with Mexican sorcerers. For lack of space, I have not done so since 2004. Today I woke up thinking: Castañeda, despite all his critics and all his work that later on seemed so disorderly to me, should not be forgotten. So here we present some of his reflections.

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What's Most Essential About Who You Are? by Michael Bungay StanierRumour has it that over a cycle of seven years, our body completely replaces itself.
Even if that's not true - and there's some debate about it - it's an interesting place to start in asking the question: just what *is* essential about who I am?

(Of if you'd like a more visual starting point, look at these photos with some great "before and after" shots.

So how do you stay connected with what's true and essential and core about who you are, while at the same time growing and adapting and changing with your environment?

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Message from MitenHi Friends, Like you, I have been trying to find some way to make sense of the tragedy in Tibet. By the time you read this, hopefully, things will have changed for the better. But how to find the ‘good' in such a catastrophe...? This has been my koan since the news broke. How do we find a ‘yes' to a situation which seems so unjust and unfair? I find myself angry and frustrated – but at the same time knowing that if there exists a ‘no' in any given situation, there must also be a ‘yes' hidden in there somewhere.

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Courage in the face of failure by Charlie BadenhopThe fear of failure is an emotion that knocks on everyone's door at one time or another. I hope this story helps you reconsider failure from a new, more heartfelt perspective.

A woman in her fifties who'd been working as a business professional for a number of years, came to one of my workshops for the first time.

Thank you, President Bush by Paolo CoelhoI wrote the letter below on March 9, 2003, ten days before the invasion of Iraq. It is the most widely read text I have written, having been published in the leading newspapers across the world and all over the Internet: close to 500 million people have read it.

The war is now entering its 6th year, and over 4,000 American soldiers have lost their lives, together with an indefinite number of Iraqis. According to the CNN (March 24, 2008), "estimates of the Iraqi death toll range from about 80,000 to the hundreds of thousands, with another 2 million forced to leave the country and 2.5 million displaced within Iraq, according to the U.N. High Commissioner for Refugees”.

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